Annie Lyles is a manager at Prevention Institute in Oakland, a nationwide non-profit dedicated to improving community health and well-being.
“One of the interesting parts about this situation (at Cheesecake Factory) is the connection between bullying, male violence and bystanders,” she said. “Having an environment that has norms where people are respected in the workplace prevents things like this happening.”
Research shows that if a bystander says something, bullying generally stops within 90 seconds and doesn’t recur, she said.
“There are all sorts of amazing research about the power of the bystander and the power of supervisors to really set standards,” Lyles said. “In this case, there was a key opportunity for a bystander to support the individuals who were being persecuted, really. That’s a huge failure of the environment.”
Every culture has aspects of violence as well as aspects of respect, she said.
“It’s easy to say this was cultural, but there are plenty of people of Mexican descent who are not violent,” she said. “In terms of why would men do this, I would say when there’s an environment that allows and fosters one group to oppress another, that environment lets it grow.”
Lyles said that good people who might not otherwise participate in egregious behavior can be caught up and let an environment influence their behavior, she said.
“Policies are very important, and workplace norms are very important to keep people on the right track,” she said. “It’s the responsibility of the workplace to set an environment where people feel respected and can go about their jobs without fearing for their safety.”
She does not fault the alleged victims at the Cheesecake Factory for not simply quitting their jobs, and she understands they may have felt conflict about quitting.
“When you’re thankful to have a job in this economy, it becomes a balance of your own well-being versus your economic well-being.”
From azcentral.com.

















I’m all for bullying to be stoped. but this approach of saying we wont take it any more is empty.(or what???)the bullies need some real consequences to stop. A pink shirt and someone screaming never again will make them laugh.
it’s the same with all this talk about stopping gang violence. more police and other resources wont solve anything. these are all poeple “known” to the police. well, then they need to go pick them up and throw them behind bars for six months before asking any questions. the only reason this cant be done is our liberal bill of rights that Mr. Trudau left us with.
OMG!!! I can\’t believe people would ever do that to Miley!!! They don\’t even allow bulling at my school.. it\’s uncalled for. I feel so bad for her! I love Miley Cyrus i\’m like her #1 fan. <3